Thankful for Birthdays
Birthdays are something we should all celebrate. I'm not meaning the big parties with balloons and gifts and a ton of attention. Those things are nice, but not what's important. It's a time to celebrate life, to celebrate who you are, to appreciate someone important and amazing - and that's you!
I was born in February and every year on my birthday, my grandpa would tell me the story of how he was building the addition on my parents house and the winter was really bad that year. When my mom's due date was close, they worried about how they would get her to the hospital which is about 30 miles away. There was talk about taking her on a snowmobile to the next town (heaven help her if that had happened!) It was always fun to hear their thoughts surrounding the day I was born and to know that others were willing to help her out if needed. Thankfully, the weather cooperated and everything turned out ok.
To give you an idea of where I grew up, this photo is a beautiful shot of my hometown. Winters were brutal back then and there were many, many days where we were snowed in. Snow drifts where HUGE which made for fun sledding!
As each of my 4 girls were born, I've tried to remember the events surrounding their day. I like to tell them about how we felt and how we knew their little personalities and how they are each beautifully unique. I was a single mom with my oldest daughter and she was so tiny and sweet and looked just like a porcelain doll. She was my little buddy for years and I appreciate that time together.
My 2nd daughter was the 1st baby for my husband and it was so sweet to watch him with her when she was first born. He would talk to her while I was pregnant and she would turn her head to listen to him. My 3rd, well, she did NOT like her dad! He would try to talk to her while I was pregnant too and she would immediately flip to kick him away. The first year, she was such a mama's girl and it was a big struggle for me to do the simple every day tasks. And my 4th is definitely the most energetic. She was constantly twisting and turning and kicking while I was pregnant and we teased that she would be part of a circus. She's still our little ball of energy and we love every minute of it. Each one filled our hearts with more love than we could imagine and each of them mean the world to us.
Fast forward 22 years from that photo above...
My oldest daughter is due this month and you may be reading this as I'm holding my new grandson. I am going to be a grandma!!!! I'm so excited to record the events of the day that my new little first grandchild enters this world. I want him to know how loved and special he is.
No matter your background, I want you to know...
We ALL have something in common! We ALL have birthdays. We ALL are unique. We ALL are important. We ALL have a story. We ALL can celebrate that we are here. Though our lives may be very different, we still have some things in common. I for one am glad that you are here! I hope that you will take a moment to think to yourself on your birthday - "I am unique", "I am important", "I am the best me there is" because you absolutely are!!!
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11/13/2018 10:52:21 am
I have enjoyed reading this blog today and reminds me of all the event around my own children being born. When my first daughter arrived my then husband started having affairs by the time she was 8mths old he had left and I was 5mths pregnant with my son. I remember asking God, 'Why me?'. I was a lone parent for 13yrs it was hard to do everything on my own especially when they were young. One day a neighbour answered the 'why me' question for me. She said, 'Why not you. You are a great mother and you are doing a better job bringing your children up in a single happy home that's better than an unhappy married home. My view of myself changed right then. Thirteen years later I met my now husband. A year later we had my youngest daughter. My life at the time of her birth was so much different. I had a husband who was a great support to me and children. Everything surrounding her birth was so much better. But my neighbour was right I was born to be a mother and nothing has brought me more joy than my children. I am extremely proud of the successes of all three off my children and look forward to being a Granny one day ❤️
11/13/2018 11:08:12 pm
11/13/2018 09:24:08 pm
Congratulations on your new grandbaby!
11/13/2018 11:09:29 pm
Thanks Evelene! He is such a doll
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